The Post I Should Have Written
Anonymous
Content warning:
The following text describes sexual assault and violence, and can be disturbing and/or triggering for some readers. Please find resources listed at the bottom of the article.
Because I was your girlfriend means it was okay, right?
Because we had done it before means it was okay, right?
Because I cheated first means it was okay, right?
Because I wore too much makeup and too little clothes means it was okay, right?
Because you said you were smart and I was dumb means it was okay, right?
Because you were drunk and I was not means it was okay, right?
Because I didn't fight you off means it was okay, right?
Because I was crying means it was okay, right?
Because you said you've done this before means it was okay, right?
Right, kk.
#metoo
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